When Determining Custody, Is Oklahoma A “Mother First” State?
Short answer: No. The court determines custody based on the best interest for the child. Fathers can feel defeated from the beginning of a custodial dispute due to this misconception. Mothers can feel they will win custody solely by being the mother. Oklahoma courts do not award custody to mothers based solely on their being the mother. Historically, a large percentage of custodial disputes may have ended in the mother’s favor, but times have changed. A father’s legal rights to their child is equal to the mother’s. In scenarios with multiple children of the same parents, the custodial dispute is determined within one case.
Judges make custodial determinations based on the best interest of the child. It is presumed that the best interest of the child is to have equal time with both parents. It is the parents’ actions and livelihood that the judge uses to determine whether or not a parent should have less than equal time with the child. Each person will have an equal opportunity to provide the court their case.
This does not mean that the court will automatically give both parents equal visitation time with the child. It simply means that the court will assess the case as a whole. Specifically, the court will look into the lives of the mother and father, then determine the best custody and visitation situation for the child. Attorneys provide the court evidence showing each of the parents’ ability (or inability) to be a fit and proper person to care for the child.
People may rely on Oklahoma Statute 10 O.S. 2011 § 7800 which states, “Except as otherwise provided by law, the mother of a child born out of wedlock has custody of the child until determined otherwise by a court of competent jurisdiction.” This statute applies to a child’s custody situation at birth for an unmarried mother. Once a father establishes that he is the father then he will have equal rights to the child. Neither party is guaranteed to win or lose a custody dispute based on their being the mother or father.
Custody disputes are complex and emotionally draining. It is important to hire an attorney to help navigate the process for you. Call Ben Hilfiger or Parker Wilkerson at Cook and Hilfiger Law Office for a free consultation.
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